The number one thing that makes your marriage work isn’t communication. It isn’t just having things in common. It’s not just showing love. It’s not even being in love.

What could it be? Is there a magic thing that will make a marriage work? I say YES!

Here is! The number one thing that will make a relationship work. HAVE TWO PEOPLE WITH THEIR SHIT TOGETHER!

Having a life that works. A life that is active and not reactive. A life that allows you to be reasonable, trustworthy, and reliable. How about fun and present in the moment?

No one is perfect. Everyone has issues. What are your triggers, what are your weaknesses and issues? But nonetheless, IT'S NOT NICE TO YOUR PARTNER TO BE A MESS. It is not nice to your partner to gain 100 lbs! it is not nice to your partner to be an alcoholic.

Take a mini-assessment of yourself. And ask your self: WOULD YOU WANT TO BE MARRIED TO YOU??

Of course, we need to communicate and show love, and it is nice to have things in common but quit expecting your partner to hang with you and your crap.

Get your shit together and date and marry someone who does too!

There you go. Get busy!

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